Ladder

I would drop you a ladder

Ask you to climb

Up Up Up

To me

But if I have to ask you

It just means you aren't ready.

So I wait.

Lurking

People Lurk.
"They soooo social."
(That's sarcasm.)
People Lurk.
It's easy.
It requires no effort.
Relational?
No.
People Lurk
Because it's easy

Not Finished -- Sigh

-Rules -Laws -Mandates -Commands - What's expected of you: perfection. You own confusion. You yearn for peace. The Bubble; No Escape

(Poem under construction. Come back later when I find myself and I'll be complete.)

Week Before My Birthday - Blah

I'm anxious. I can't sleep. It's that time of year again when I question everything.

It's really simple. It's not complicated. It's just this weird thing that my body does before a few days before the day that reminds me that I'm getting older...old...ancient...closer to death. Damn birthdays. I love them and get so annoyed at the same time. The thing about this time is my mind's constant thoughts that scream, 'You should be married,' or 'You should have kids,' or 'You aren't doing what you're called to do, but who actually cares about you. Give up.'


Anyways....I'm not in a mood to deal with people. I'm a little on edge right now. Give me a few days and I'll be fine. I'll be my normal self again and I'll stop worrying about all the things that I worry about -- the things that make me feel less alive.

Whatever.

Has The Word "Christian" Lost Its Meaning?

Has The Word "Christian" Lost  Its Meaning?


I love Jesus. I follow Him, but I'm so uncomfortable calling myself a "Christian" anymore. It seems like the word doesn't mean "little Christ" in this age. How can one call themselves the name "Christian" but not follow the true founder of their religion? If you say you follow Jesus, why would you spend all your time and energy hating homosexuals, being against same sex marriage, oppressing women, controlling the sex lives of other people and talking about abortion almost 24/7.

Did Jesus Christ, from our 4 canonical gospels, focus on those topics? No, He did not. He focused on the kingdom of His Father and making the Father known to man in a way that mankind had not seen or understood before in recorded history. Jesus explained the Father God. If you understand Jesus Christ, you have a better understanding of God the Father. Everything Jesus said came from the Father God. So, if Jesus only said what the Father wanted, why are we not focusing on the words of Jesus? Are they not important? Are the words of man more important than the words that came straight from God the Father to Jesus the Son?

In the story of the good Samaritan, Jesus teaches us to love our neighbor no matter who he is and no matter how he worships. Is that really a hard concept? Can we all not live in a world where different denominations and sects or branches of Christianity come together in their shared belief and love of Jesus Christ?

Maybe, I'm a dreamer. Maybe I want too much from people that say they put their hope and faith in Jesus. I don't know if I'm filled with hope anymore when people whine if you don't use the name "Yeshua" for Jesus. I think Jesus (Yeshua) knows that we are praying to Him or talking about Him. I mean He is kinda ...ya know...The Son of God.

People are so focused on what can divide the body of Christ and not what unites all as one in Jesus. We've become blind to what really matters. We've lost our focus on the mission. We've forgotten our duty. We've forgotten to love one another.

Anyways...a house divided will fall.

Positive Transracial Adoption Rant - Hair Issues - Black folks

Hair Problems - Adoption

I think it's absolutely amazing that many people of various races adopt black and biracial or multiracial children. So many minority children in the USA are rarely ever adopted. Also, I know that many people adopt internationally, and I have no issues with that. I think it takes a brave and courageous person to adopt any child regardless of color or country of origin. Now, with that said, let's talk about hair.

Black folks are very sensitive about hair. 

Hair is a longstanding Black American issue. We always feel like our hair has to "represent" the entire Black community, but most Black Americans are finally starting to calm down with the crazy negative issues they have with their own hair.

Natural or Chemically Processed: both are fine. I think people should choose a hairstyle that works for the busy parent and the playful child. Never feel pressured that you have to do any specific style or trend because it's popular.

In the Black community, we call unkempt or uncombed hair that you can't run your fingers through as "Nappy". You can have a natural hairstyle and NOT be nappy.

1. Don't be afraid of Hair Dress / Pomade (We black folks call it grease). It's good stuff. There are lots of great pomades available today. After you wash the hair, add just a dime size amount of pomade to the hair. <--  Comb thru with a wide tooth comb or finger twist the hair. The pomade or hair dress will make the hair smooth and shiny and manageable and protect it from becoming too dry and brittle.

2. Black Ethnic hair gets very brittle and dry. Don't be afraid to get a spray bottle with about 2/3 water and 1/3 Frizz serum and spritz the hair. It needs moisture.

3. Condition more than you shampoo. Shampoo twice a week and Condition maybe 3 or 4 times a week -- (For Natural Hair).
Dark and Lovely Cholesterol Conditioner is really good with detangling hair. Biosilk or Fructis Frizz serum is great to use also to keep away the frizz

4. Braids, twists, or cornrows are great styles also, but remember to let the hair out after a week or two from a style so the hair can rest for a few days, because you don't want additional breakage from it being tied up or braided too tightly or for your child's scalp to break out in bumps from being pulled too tightly.

If the hair on a boy is very unruly, just start over. Take him to a barber shop that knows how to cut Black ethnic hair and get a short style that you and your child agree on. Let the hair grow out healthier. Damaged hair is ...well damaged. Just cut it off.

Girls - natural hairstyles are fine! If you want to do relaxers or texturizers, read all directions on home kits or go to a salon and get your daughter's hair styled. It's usually safer to have a professional chemically treat the hair, and you can ask for tips from a good stylist that specializes in Black hair care. Great advantage, right? I think so.

No Label Required - I Have A Name

Why do we have to have so many freaking labels for people?
I don't want to be called....
or known by....
a label....
I'm more than one label...
I'm more than one noun...
You give me names that I didn't ask for...
Names that I want you to lose and never find.
I want my renown to be about my character
My integrity
My kindness
My compassion
My voice for those that have no voice
My love for the least and my love for the greatest
My hope in Him
My faith in Her
My yearning for peace
My desire to see the things that no one wants to see
My forgiveness 
........
Me
My name
Me
My name
Not your label

Morning Silence and Prayer

I'm awake and my mind is stuck on the concept of prayer. When I pray, I'm tapping into the Spirit of God that lives in me. Prayer allows me to open the floodgates to God the father. I'm not saying that God is closed off to us ever; I'm saying that we sometimes put walls or obstacles in our way. We have to allow the Holy Spirit permission to interact with our human spirit/soul.

It's difficult to let God into our innermost being. We don't always like to share ourselves with our creator. When we do let down the walls or open the floodgates to God's Spirit, we are trusting that I Am will only give us what we can handle. We have to trust God to be who He is: holy.

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Restless

It's 5:12am. I can't sleep. I'm stressed out but probably nothing compared to my mom and my cousins. Grief sucks but it's necessary. I don't know what stage of grief I'm going through now. All I know is that I'm heartbroken. I hate losing my aunts and uncles. I feel like a piece of me dies when any of them passes from this life to the next. I hurt and cry for my mom. She's doesn't know how to express her emotional pain. She holds all of it inside. I can't do that for long. It will break me. I try to just let the pain and hurt...and anger out in small bursts throughout my days. Time doesn't heal all wounds. We just learn to cope with the wounds over a period of time. Believe me when I say that scars remain.

Son Sun

The Son came down in the center of the Sun and the angel brought me to the center of the circle. The Son's sun descended upon me. His glory radiated and burst forth waves of His true self upon all whom had laid in wait in the inner and outer circles that surrounded me.

Forgive me for this lame post

Forgive me for this lame post. I just need to jot down a thought away from Facebook and Twitter.

Why are so many of the religious blogs always talking about sex, gender, and sexuality? It's usually nothing new or positive or hopeful. They just continue to spread church tradition and archaic teachings. It's exhausting to read anything from the Christian bubble. I think God wants us to grow and evolve into a group of people that can actually forgive and love others. Yes, it's hard. It's not easy to forgive or be nice or not judge. It's a challenge everyday to not hold someone's mistakes or stupidity over their heads. You have to fight your need to be superior. You have to kill your own pride. You are no better than any other human. Yes, you have to remind yourself of that everyday. Not.....Easy.